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Jumping through HOOPS at L.A. Fitness… November 5, 2008

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ccI think it’s time someone come up a way to monitor online purchases for subscriptions, downloads and member fees. All too often, I find charges popping up on my credit cards for things I KNOW I canceled months before, however, the company seems to think they can just continue charging the card as their Terms of Service (TOS) has some type of bullshit “hoop” to jump through in order TRULY cancel your membership (or subscription). I have two examples to share with my readers:

LA Fitness - I joined two years ago and then had to cancel the membership, as I just did not have the time to hit the gym a few days a week. I called them over one dozen times and told them to cancel the membership. However, they just kept charging my card. In the last four days I received ten calls from these knuckleheads informing me they could not charge my card anymore, I replied - “oh, finally woke up over there and figured out that you can’t steal my money anymore?” They replied - “But, sir, you have to go into the gym and cancel directly”. I replied - “click”.

Channel Advisor (ChannelAdvisor.com)- This group has been charging my card since 1/2007 and although I canceled the account in 2/2007, they have continued to charge my credit card. I have been fighting through email and telephone calls with this group for the past eight days. “Sir, you must go to our site, cancel your account and then send an email to our billing department and inform them as well”. “Screw you asshole! I’m not jumping through hoops to cancel a membership when I canceled it two years ago. In fact, you knew I canceled this membership as even the email I registered with does NOT work (to this day) to log in to your site”. This company canceled the membership but, still (to this very day) charges $29.95 (without fail) on the 4th of every month.

This is the bad part about using a credit card online. There are thieves on the net who think they can get away with making free money over and over again. Use PayPal and you can get double-dutched and if you don’t pay attention, PayPal is behind the scenes working its magic by doling out a dollar here and dollar there to merchants with subscription accounts.

Go into PayPal and try to find an easy way to cancel a subscription and your name might as well be Helen Keller, as there’s no clear-cut way to do it without knowing where to look. (The best way is click on the long reference number and click on the details of the transaction. Be sure to scroll all the way down to the CANCEL SUBSCRIPTION button or they won’t cancel it).

Another tip is to NEVER (EVER) use a debit card online, as it’s harder to get the money back once the thieves have charged a debit card. One more thing, if you are going to join something that’s some type of membership or subscription, be sure to untick the box that states “Bill Me Monthly” as if you don’t - you become the gift that keeps on giving.

 

Ann Rice Finds the Lord -Never Knew He Was MIA… November 2, 2008

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So, Ann Rice has seen the baby blues of Jesus. A professed atheist has found the lord - Good God! Rice, who’s vampire books catapulted her to fame, has sworn off blood-sucking demons and bi-sexual vampires to reinvent herself as a Christian writer. Good timing, as the vampire market was getting a bit stiff. Her son, Christopher Rice has written a few good books (with gay themes) and I believe (for the most part) he’s a talented writer.

In an interview from her home in Rancho Mirage, California, Rice stated (in so many words) that’s she’s taking all she has learned from writing about goblins, witches and vampires (with a touch of S&M erotica thrown in) and channeling her talents (from past experience) to the good work of the Lord. She’s also looking for redemption and wants God to accept what she’s NOW writing. Ann, I don’t think you need to be redeemed for writing some great books that were not only entertaining but, rather sexy and provocative. I don’t think God views your past work as “bad” and more than likely does not hand out credit for “good” work.  In other words, I don’t think you can play catch-up with the Lord at age 67. I think your life’s work (not just your success in writing) is based upon you being a “good” person. Your son is gay and you not only accepted him, you embraced his sexuality. Now, I hope that your embracing your son being gay (after finding the Lord) does not change, as we all know the position that the “Good Book” takes on homosexuality. (Here come the Bible thumpers, thump! thump!). I think our charismatic Christians are “constant” in their beliefs and faith. I think anyone can be an atheist one day, a christian (the next day) and a Buddhist, the next. I think the “normal” (non-fanatic Christians - regular people), lose a loved one and can become an atheist on the spot. Why did God  take my loved one, why did my son die in Iraq? A month later, I think that that same person can come to believe that the Lord has called them and has given them direction to help others, become a gentle person, be kinder to others and go join the Peace Corps. In the reverse, I think a kind, gentle human being can lose ALL beliefs when they lose all of their possessions during a natural disaster and lose all faith in the Lord.

I think we ALL find our God and pray to him when we’re in trouble. How many readers never go to church (even on the holidays - like me) but, will pray to God (any God) when our family member is dying of cancer or, we’re about to lose something near and dear to us. The “acid test” in finding God is NOT changing the subject matter of your life’s work, it is found at those moments when you silently pray to a God (any God) for help, love and support.

Yes, those who never pray to God (any God) have no belief, no faith and possibly no future beyond this world. Those who profess their love of God publicly (as Ann Rice has announced) may be doing so to feel better about themselves (at age 67) or, selling others on their belief and buying a book. I’m not saying that’s Ann’s motive, however, I’m not a true believer in someones public confession that they have now found the Lord and will write good things for the Lord. That’s the stuff of PR firms churning out the “spin” for the next best seller. Yes, it’s easy to change your writing prose when you’re sitting on the top of the world in Rancho Mirage, have millions in the bank and not a care in the world. Yes, it’s also easy to sit back and then ponder if the Lord is looking down kindly upon you and then commit to write another best seller for the Lord.

There was one good vampire movie entitled ”Fright Night”. In this vampire flick, a vampire hunter is holding up a cross to the face of the vampire, as he advances - to no avail. The vampire is unaffected by the cross.

As he comes up to the face of his victim, he makes one statement (which says it all)…FOR YOUR CROSS TO WORK ON ME -YOU’VE GOTTA HAVE FAITH!

ANN - YOU’VE GOTTA HAVE FAITH!

 

The McCain Supremacy or is it Identity? November 1, 2008

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mccainMcCain simply does not know what he wants to be when he grows up. I woke up this morning to a new set of Obama bashing commercials funded by McCain. I then caught up on his latest shenanigans on CNN and of course, he’s still talking about Obama, campaign finance and Ayers. On another channel, Palin was taking her pot shots at Obama as well. Seems Mutt & Jeff (you decide who’s Mutt and who’s Jeff) just can’t get enough jabs in at Obama before their Tuesday deadline.

In Florida, former Governor Bush is on the radio advertising for McCain. I wonder if that’s campaign money well spent, as Jeb was out a while ago and no could stand him either. Look for Jeb on the ticket in 2012.

I think what this race is showing us is that the Republican Guard (regime) is NOW finally over. I spent a lot of time with dozens of Republican Senators in Washington and quite frankly, with all of the cocktail parties, events, luncheons and dinners, I often wondered where any of them found the time to do much to help anyone but, themselves. I like Elizabeth Dole, she’s a sweetheart but, what has she really accomplished other than being married to Bob? She may not make it back for the next term - a pity.

The only hope any Republican had was Bill Frist, I met him more than few times and he’s an engaging, intelligent and forthright individual. I receive a Christmas card from him and his family every year. However, Bill opted of politics (for now) and he was the ONLY choice at any hope of a Republican President being elected.

So, here we are (as Republicans) stuck with the likes of McCain and Palin (Bonnie & Clyde) - not a pretty picture. I wish McCain would stop addressing everyone as his “friends”. He constantly uses this phrase when addressing potential voters at rallies. If he’s not annoying enough with the “my friends” mantra, he then has to remind everyone about his “scars” and then of course, he pulls “Joe the Puppet” out of a hat and has bandied him about as though he’s the last word for “everyone” who owns a business. BTW, look for Joe on the new Survivor series and Amazing Race:-)

Joe has no presence whatsoever and quite frankly, he’s not someone I would have chosen as an endorsement for any type of campaign (dog-catcher or otherwise). Bringing Joe along for the ride was McCain’s ultimate mistake! Bashing Obama is about as un-American as anyone can get. If Obama is elected as our President, we can thank McCain for tarnishing his good reputation (from the get-go) as one who consorts with terrorists. I don’t remember Obama bringing up McCain’s past marital issues during his campaign. From what I understand, he left his former wife for his new one, as the former wife was not in good health. Yeah, that’s someone I want taking care of me and mine in the future.

I think McCain has some type of superiority complex. It’s as though he thinks that everyone should vote for him based upon his past performance as a Senator and of course, his scars. His past performance was that of George Bush (they could have been tied at the hip during the past eight years).

One thing about Bush, he’ll no longer be President of this country in the New Year and I doubt he’ll get too many speaking engagements, as he sometimes slurs his words. I think he can save everyone the time and trouble in building a Presidential library, as we all know his past history and don’t need to relive it through video clips and his memoirs. In this case, we don’t need a rendition of Bob Hope singing “Thanks for the Memories” with a montage of Bush’s greatest achievements. He’s a legend in his own mind.

No, what we need is to move forward - out of our current nightmare - and come together. We need to bring our guys and gals home from Iraq (like tomorrow). We need to be more caring about ourselves (at home) and less thoughtful about other countries and their needs. We can be number one, by addressing our issues at home first and worrying about the rest of world after sorting out our own mess. We need a President who is NOT McCain and that leaves us one good choice - Obama.

 

Obamamercial - The Review… October 30, 2008

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obama2How many out there watched the Obamamercial last night? I tuned into our local Tampa Bay channel and there was Obama looking very Presidential. My buddies were betting on whether he’d sit behind a nice mahogany desk with Americans flags, flanking gold drapes, in the background or, would he sit on a desk and be casual. I bet he’d sit his ass on a desk and I won five bucks! Thanks Obama! He’s not even been elected yet and he made me five bucks!

Seriously, this man has run one hell of a race and I hope he wins. If Obama can outwit the Republican party and raise record campaign cash - then I can just imagine what he’ll do when he comes into office in January.

Out with the old (Bush-boy) and in with the new - Obama. Yes, I’m holding onto that picture.

It will be my absolute pleasure to watch Bush get into the Presidential limo for the last time. Remember, when Bush went to his first Inauguration? There were riots (so to speak) and of course, they didn’t show that on television.

A black man in the white house? Yeah, that’s about as progressive as this country has come in the last 100 years. Who would have thought that this was even a possibility? I’m a southern Caucasian boy and I live in a town where they still fly the rebel flag and where the KKK was alive with many members - not too long ago.

This is a white neighborhood (and town) where if you’re black, you keep driving and don’t stop…

Needless to say, I think that people of ALL races will come (and are) coming together to put Obama in charge of the Free World and that’s the people talking. Hopefully, those in control of the Electoral College don’t screw with the will of people. In fact, I think the rest of the world will view us in a more favorable light and view us as a progressive nation of people.

No longer will I have to travel to Europe and pretend to be a Canadian…

Yes, that’s what many Americans do traveling throughout Europe, we don Canadian flag pins on our lapels and will wear a t-shirt (with a small Canadian flag) with the word ”Aye” emblazoned on it just so we’re treated better at the border. Quite frankly, I do want the French to like us. Many may not care what the French (or even the Italians) think of us, but, I do. I want to travel the Free World and feel as though (as an American) I’m welcomed with open arms. In fact, I’d like to see some more ”color” in the town where I live, as it’s sooooo white (with a touch of redneck) that you begin to feel like a racist just for living in a such a town. If I had a choice, I would have lived closer to the city but, got stuck where I am.

On what Obama will do (and can’t do). First, he can’t screw things up anymore then Bush has. We’re in so much debt that a little bit more ain’t gonna hurt us (and if NEW debt is due to putting OUR people to work), I’m all for it. What he can do is improve our lives with more jobs, help seniors, who make under 50K per year and fix our health care system. If he just does ONE out the THREE I just stated, we’re already hitting a home-run.

As for Joe the Plumber, what a joke. Thanks McCain for taking a plumber and making him a celebrity. Joe won the lottery and can now get a book deal. Also, I’m a bit tired of hearing McCain stating “he has the scars to prove it”. Yeah, and there’s plenty of bags with bodies of young men coming home each and every week from Iraq. Oh, and let’s not forget about those losing their limbs, sight and bowels on the streets of Iraq and coming back with MORE than just scars.

McCain is about as bad they come. He’s old, he’s tired and should have retired ten years ago. Palin is about as witty and perky, as the step-ford ladies selling jewelry on QVC. My prediction? She’ll end up on daytime television on “The View”.

You know what? I find myself getting more pissed as I write this blog so, I’m done. Let’s call it a day, everyone vote for Obama, send the Bushes packing back to Texas (never to hear their name again) and move on.

 

Blog Review - Thoughts Fur Paws… October 30, 2008

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Probably one of the easiest topics to blog about is kids and pets. I have a cat and don’t have kids, I have focused on one blog, which captures (what I believe) is the perfect mix of pics and text.

Thoughts Fur Paws is a pretty nice blog. It’s broken down into easy to navigate sections and its use of pics is not overwhelming. One thing I don’t like about some blogs is the use of super-sized pics and the insertion of one small paragraph underneath the pic, which attempts to elicit a response on the pic. In this case, a picture is not worth a 1000 words, as it seems as though those who want to be “super-sized” (pic wise), are simply filling a page with a scrolling photo album.

So, what can I find wrong with a blog about pets? Nothing. Thoughts Fur Paws has some great pics (normal sized pics), informative articles and a nice layout. They’re not selling cat food, leashes and litter boxes nor does the author choose one type of pet over another (the author appears to be neutral on this topic). The only thing I would suggest for this blog is a section entitled “Pet Peeves” (as I simply think the title fits the blog).

I have a Ragdoll named Dolly. She’s a piece of art (Dali), a Ragdoll (Dolly) and I just might get another one ( a boy) and call him Madison.:-)

 

Checking Link Popularity… June 19, 2008

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Yesterday, I was hunting and pecking my way around the net to find an accurate link popularity checker. As many may know, you can get a dozen different results from the various link popularity checkers. After spending a day comparing the numerous link checkers, the most accurate one I found (thus far) is located at Icon Interactive.

Icon offers up results for DMOZ, Zeal, Alexa Ranking and sums up link popularity for Yahoo, Google, All the Web, Bloglines, HotBot, MSN Search and Alta Vista. Just pop in your domain name and review the results. Once Icon completes its search, click on the View link to review link popularity results.

Bloggrrl yielded 10,700 results in Alta Vista, 232 in Google, 740 in Bloglines, 3400 in AlltheWeb. MSN Search and Yahoo you will have to click on View to search results.

If anyone has a better suggestion, please, post a comment and link for all to review.

 

Going Green with Envy over Green Machines? June 16, 2008

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I got this great idea! I had to visit LA and decided to drive across country in three days, as opposed to flying into LAX in four short hours. I just bought an H2 Hummer and wanted to break her in. So, we get into the car and began our cross-country tour. The price of gas kept climbing, as we headed north toward Atlanta, however, started to come down (dramatically) as we headed West and into Texas (go figure). In fact, gas prices in Texas were $0.50 a gallon cheaper. No doubt, I spent a good chuck of change on gas and would have spent less had I flown into LAX and rented a car.

A month goes by and I have to go back out LA and this time I decided to fly into LAX and rent a Prius. I figured I would think “green” and try to fit in with all the other “green” conscious California types who drive Hybrid cars, adorn their homes with solar panels and collect rain water in colorful buckets. When I was last in LA, I got some dirty looks from those driving Hybrid cars (it seems there’s an abundance of Hybrid’s dominating the highways of California these days).

At traffic lights, drivers to my left or right (or both) would send over a look of scorn or, simply shake their head in disbelief that someone had the nerve to actually drive a Hummer in this day and age of global warming and high gas prices. However, drive a Prius and all the other little Prius people will wave at you (as they go by) and even toot their horn in approval.

I drove 1500 miles up the California coast (in four days). I drove through national parks, up an 8,000 foot mountain and into Nevada. I made it to Reno and then came south back to LA. It was a beautiful ride and I don’t regret one minute my trip. However, I’ve got to say that while the Prius is great on fuel, it lacks the comfort features that we have all come to enjoy in our big, beautiful (sometimes tricked out) land yachts.

It cost more to rent a Prius than a comfortable convertible and any savings in gas was eaten up by the rental car company. When I returned home, I actually thought  about replacing my Hummer with a Prius. I spent a few days searching on line and visited all of my local Toyota dealership’s in search of the little “green machine”. Considering I’ve seen Prius’s all over the roads in the California (and in even Tampa, Florida where I live), I figured there has to be plenty of them to go around, especially in the secondary market.

To my dismay, I could not find ONE Prius available (or even on display at three Toyota dealerships). I went online and every listing I found seeks to add a high premium (in the thousands) to the price of the car. In other words, it cost plenty of “green” to go “green”.

The Prius is NOT a comfortable car. It rides low to the ground, has no optional comforts, no leather seats and looks like any other compact car on the road. It’s basically a golf cart with doors. In addition, it lacks personality, which may be one reason why my first car was an H3 (loved it) and my follow-up to the H3 was an H2 (love it even more). Yes, I get crappy gas mileage but, the H2 can go “green” when off roading and the gas mileage is no worse than other trucks - if you don’t pump her down the highway at 80 mph.

One of my friends got his hands on a new Prius. He paid a $7K premium and then spent another $1000.00 on leather seats and a few thousand more adding some extra stuff like a cd player radio, new speakers, new rims and interesting paint job. It seems as though he spent enough to build a brand new car. Why go through all of this trouble to go green?

It seems that anything “green” is sold at a premium. My buddy, who has his tricked out Prius, is paying $300.00 more on his monthly car payment then on the SUV he traded in toward his Prius…huh? He already figured out that what he would have spent on gas during the next five years (if gas prices stay the same) comes out to be about the same if he kept his two-year old SUV.

No doubt, the next few years will be all about going “green”, however, at what cost?

I just learned that Hummer is considering halting production of the H2. OK, that makes sense and I hope they do stop production, as once they do, my H2 will be worth that much more, as you won’t be able to get them except on the secondary market.

When I went to Toyota to look at a Prius (they didn’t have), I looked at other Toyota’s and tried them ALL out. The experience was akin to that of the three bears story. One was too small, another too uncomfortable and there just wasn’t one Toyota (that I could find) that was just right.

Here’s what I’m going to do to go “green”. I’m no longer using my dishwasher (just two people in the household). We’re washing our dishes after dinner and have found we actually enjoy the chore and get to talk about the days events and have a few laughs.

We’re turing off all the lights in the house we don’t use (ambient lighting I call it). We bought two bicycles to do short runs to the local store for eggs and milk. We’re taking shorter showers (together). We’re more conscious at the grocery market and bring our own cloth bags to tote groceries home (no more plastic bags). We even set our air conditioning to a comfortable/hot temperature, as opposed to the comfortable/cool we’ve become to be used to in hot, muggy Florida.

In other words, we’re not wasting water, electric or filling up the garbage dumps with plastic. However, one luxury that we will keep is the H2. We drive to the office (8 miles round trip per day) and enjoy that eight mile ride. Gas prices will more than likely go up (maybe down, who knows) but, we won’t be buying a tricked-out golf cart to make a statement of being green:-)